We asked sex educators and sex therapists to share their best advice on how to make it a very satisfying experience for all involved. Note: Just remember these are general tips. Focus on a slow buildup maybe start with a body massage or a make-out session , then pay special attention to the clitoris, which, for many women, must be stimulated in order for them to have an orgasm. Try circles, moving your tongue up and down, or left to right. When going down on your partner, you can supplement some tongue action by using your hands to stroke the clitoris, play with the labia or finger her.
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Some people spend years hunting down a single formula for mastering oral sex that makes them the World Champion of Mouth Stuff every single time. But when it comes to oral sex, every partner — and, indeed, every time — is different. This makes a one-size-fits-all approach pretty ineffective. As with anything else related to sexually pleasuring a partner, the very best advice is to communicate with them before and during!
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We cannot guarantee that the page will display correctly in your browser. Most women need warming up — both mentally and physically. As things heat up and clothes come off, find a comfortable position, so that you are free to focus on what you need to — her clitoris and vagina. Gently move your mouth around her panty line and lower stomach — start with what feels natural and respond to her body language. Lick, or even gently nibble as you go along.
As most people with a vulva will tell you, oral sex can be the difference between a lackluster night of sex and an out-of-this-world orgasmic experience. My friend, this is where oral sex comes in. As an added bonus, lots of people insist oral sex is more intimate, in a way, than penetrative sex. In other words, it's a great way to bond with your partner.